
We all know there are certain qualities, skills and relationships youth need to help them thrive and make healthy choices. While research has shown the positive cumulative effect of these protective factors, it has also shown the powerful impact a positive relationship between a youth and a trusted adult can have in helping the youth feel supported and make healthy choices. This year, Triton Regional School District is committed to building more of these meaningful relationships between youth and staff.
Recent youth survey results from Trition Middle and High School found this positive relationship is less about the subject you teach, but more about the relationship between the adult and the student. When asked what makes them feel most seen or connected to an adult in school, youth most common responses were, “they say hi to me in the hall, they ask me about my weekend, and they listen to me”. It may not be as complicated or time intensive as you’d expect. Here we see, the most impactful ways adults can interact with youth center around relationship building and showing you care.
Triton staff were first briefed on the Developmental Relationships during a professional development day in October. The Developmental Relationships framework was created by the Search Institute as a way to identify ways to intentionally build these connections between youth and adults. The five qualities of these relationships include, Express Care, Challenge Growth, Provide Support, Share Power and Expand Possibilities. A more recent professional development day in January centered on seeing results from the youth in terms of what made them feel they had a trusted adult. Teachers were then asked to think about ways they could intentionally build these impactful relationships with more of their students.